Cheating can be deviating to a relationship. There is no cute fun way you can “cheat proof” a relationship and allow for others to win. IF a person has the inclination to cheat, no amount of therapy, change of environment or therapy is going to help keep infidelity from occurring.
However, all is not lost. There are ways to help “cheat proof” your relationship if both people want to develop a strong and secure romance for the ages. Here are five ways that you can increase the relationship bond with your partner so that your bond can become unbreakable.
1. Take Some Time To Take Care Of Yourself.
When a person is in a relationship, it is easy to develop a tendency to stop thinking about themselves and their emotional and physical well being. Do not focus solely on your partner. You need some me time to regroup and to help you stay in touch with yourself as a person.
People are visual. If you let your mustache grow or ignore other grooming habits, this can be a turn-off to your partner. You need to put an effort in your appearance and your emotional well being. When you look good, you will notice a lift in your emotions. You will feel good as well. Your partner will admire your efforts to stay put together.
2. Open Your Imagination
Use each other fantasies to help keep the relationship fresh. Fantasies are a natural part of life. When you are married, you have someone whom you are secure with and can help you live out your fantasies without feeling any shame. So do not bottle up your fantasies or slyly act them out by flirting with someone else. Share them with your partner. Your partner should be understanding and look at your fantasies in a way to boost desire in the bedroom.
3. Take Control
You do not have to be an old married couple. You can take control and make your life exciting. The best way to “cheat proof’ your relationship is to be open for new ideas and having the willingness to take control when needed. For example, instead of complaining about your relationship being stale and lacking in romance, find ways to incorporate romance into your relationship. Take some initiative. Relationships are partnerships. Your partner does not have to control every aspect of your relationship.
4. Show Your Love
It can be easy to get stuck in a routine and forget to show your spouse that you want and desire them. One of the main reasons people cheat is because they do not feel appreciated. Everyday you should make an effort to tell your spouse five reasons you love and appreciate having them in your life.
5. Let Go Of The Reigns
A good relationship is built on trust and mutual respect. Give your spouse some freedom. Trust that he or she loves you and will not cheat on you. It is okay for your spouse to have hobbies and interest outside of yours. It’s healthy, because it nurtures growth in both of you as individuals.
There are no cheat proof techniques to ensure that your spouse does not step out. However, if you apply these five steps, your bond with your spouse will be more secure, and the idea of cheating has less of an appeal.
In the event someone has cheated we recommend STD testing as soon as possible. This will not only relave stress, but it will also prevent STDs from spearding to someone else in the future.